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I just came across below encouraging and hopeful words of impact from "Genevieve Nnaji" (Actress) and I believe it's going to strengthen someone today.

The Essential Need For Every Lady

As a lady, you are presently in a relationship and your man may not own a car.

He may not earn a lot of money. He may not live in a posh estate.

He may not be able to shower you with gifts all the time. He may not have a great job. But it’s enough to know you are the ONLY ONE He has at his heart.

Also Read: Important Reasons Why You Need To Marry a Respectful Woman

He has a vision. He is Honest. He is very hard-working. He is humble. He keeps that smile on your face.

He talks to you every day. He actually listens to you. He always replies your messages.

He tolerates you when you're moody. His family knows you. He tells you your beautiful all the time.

He communicates with you every chance he gets. He appreciates the tiniest things you do.

He is there when you need him. He respects you. He is proud you are his…And he treats you like a queen because you are his everything and he fears to lose you.

Also Read: 6 Confirmed Keys Of Building a Strong Relationship

Why ask for what he cannot afford?

He may not have it all now, but one day he will...

He may not be living his dream now, but one day he will…

He pictures making a family with you and he means it when he says that he loves you.

African Ladies, appreciate that man in your life who strives to be all you need....

He may not be all the things you need right now but with time he will be, He will get a job, get the money, he will buy a land and he will build a house for both of you.

He won’t be renting or staying at his parent’s crib forever. He will fulfill all his promises and he will be a good dad to your children.

Just kindly be patient if you seriously love him.

Everything will be fine between both of you. Don't be pushed around by money and
what you wanna eat now.... I pray you don't eat up the future of your unborn children!

The Most Essential Need In Relationship

By Benson Michael .Chidiebere → Tuesday, 12 June 2018

Millions of ladies are still single not because of scarcity of husband but rather due to "lack of understanding of the time"

Attracting a godly husband is an easy task because marriage isn't carnal arrangement but rather uphold and originated from God.

It's not something you goes out there and fetch by yourself through the aid seduction or makes-up without divine intervention.

Marriage isn't about finding your self desires spouse but rather the outcome of such marital relationship.

I have seen many singles ladies in tears and worrisome due to lack of seriousness and willfulness of men to marry them.

They feel depressed and confused due to time frame which isn't on their side or probably due to marital pressure and the thoughts of remaining single for life.

Hence, this ugly delays emiting around this sisters is often attributed due to lack of moral training, spiritual deficiency or witchcraft manipulations.

However in this three reasons which often play horrible ordeal in hindering many spinster from getting attracted to their future husbands,...... the most easiest way of crushing it off can be drives from the life experience of Queen Esther in the Bible.


Esther was a young fair virgin whose age range between 18-25 years, she was a slave, whose parent are wallowed by death but later left under the care of her cousin brother

They are both bound in captivity in strange land.....but eventually she won a beauty pageant, crown as the most royal queen.

She beat over thousands young fair ladies in all over 127 province in ancient Persia and media.

Though the Bible didn't disclosed the secret weapon or Juju which makes this orphan's lady to win such glamorous royal diadem.

Nevertheless, she later exposed her secret in following scriptural chapters which every smart and intelligent ladies ought to recalled to heart.

"Esther 4:16 Go, gather together all the Jews that are present in Shushan, and fast ye for me, and neither eat nor drink three days, night or day: I also and my maidens will fast likewise; and so will I go in unto the king, which is not according to the law: and if I perish, I perish"

That was her secret weapon which empowered her to wins the heart of the famous king Ahasuerus.

The easiest way to pull down the glory of God and cast off powers of darkness into disarray is by endulging in dry fasting and prayers (no food, nor water)

I mean, just take a look at love food more than anything in this world, food bulldozers and sleep bulldozers.

You can't even sacrificed or afflicts your body for the cause of future blessing, always jumping from one crusade to another expecting husband to drop from heaven while you are yet to pull down the glory of God by afflicting yourself with hunger.

You often ran to your pastor for prayers, a man who had buried himself in fervent personal dry fasting and prayers and you assumed he rose to such spiritual level by mainly eating cucumber and indomiee.

Hey, sister, it's time you awake from your spiritual slumber, afflicts your body by seeking the face of the Lord in praying and fasting, in order to get attracted to your future hubby because that is the easiest way.

The Secret and Easiest Way To Attract Good Husband

By Benson Chidiebere → Saturday, 14 April 2018

If you truly love and cares for someone but doubtful if he/she is going to stick a round as life partner, please don't strangled yourself with emotional trauma but kindly maintain your peace because if he/she is truly God's perfect will it will certainly comes back to you.

You don't need to help God while planning for marital engagement. He doesn't need your assistant in picking or selecting a perfect will partner. You can only preview him/her based on outward appearance but spiritually blinded in futurology views. The Lord is mighty and definitely knew the genealogy of such person and hates to behold you suffocate in regrets in wrong choice.

When it comes to marital connection you ought to bury your permissive will or whatever documented personal desire in your dairy and faithfully succumbed unto God's perfect will. Though God Perfect wills might look foolish but definitely the best offer you can get.

And mysteriously and miraculously the Lord will certainly connects you to his prefect desire and it's left for you to either embraced or reject the offer but the Lord always knew what is best and perfect for you. Though it might take a while to be connected but it worth waiting!

However if such person refuse to manifest or neither show any interest for relationship or tend to decline your marriage proposal then she isn't yours and you don't have to kill yourself because there are still thousands of Godly products, already made and ready to be connected to their rightful and faithful partners.

Nevertheless you don't have to enslaved yourself with High Blood Pressure or thoughtful just because of obstructions or delays in marital connection but rather be hopeful, thankful and cheerful because the best Godly product is already on it way.

There is need to keep making or building godly friends around you or through social media. You patiently needs to endured and keep making godly friends, be interactive, lively and jovial because someday you shall received godly ministrations and when it comes, as a brother you won't have to struggle with your marital proposal because you have already established a moral foundation through friendship.

As it often says "the best person to marry is your best friend" because God is wonderful in nature and he often used those around us to make an impact while blessing us. In most cases he seldom used strangers while exhibiting his works but rather closed relations.

So always raise up your head; keep your eyes focused and your ear attentively. Always portrayed godly character, be trust worthy, truthful, cheerful and friendly to everyone because the Lord is presently constructing some divine marital connections through those built friendship.

Personally it often displeased me whenever i sight unpleasant attitude of some sisters. They lack what i called “Environmental Building". Most of them don't knew how to interact effectively while making godly friends that might possibly leads to marriage.

Systematically if you interview some folks who recently got wedded about the chemistry reaction that took place before tying their marital knot as married couple, you will discovered that about 80-90% of them got connected to their life partner through godly friendship or social media, by cultivating and building up such friendship on cheerfulness, honesty and inter-activeness.

So, kindly eschew the mentality of segregation, shyness or none outspoken and keep on building and networking with new friends. Presently i have several uncountable friends around the globe because i always give them the opportunity to expressed themselves and see if they would be able to fit around my context.

Moreover whenever the Lord wants to instruct or blessed you he is likely going to uses those friends to remember or connects you into marriage because God isn't a magician but a perfect creator and designer of nature.

Don't expect God to drop your future life partner from the sky. Though nothing is impossible with God but he always love to works with natural principles known as "growth'. So try to expand or widen your friendship growth and gives everyone that generous opportunity to prove themselves because what goes around always comes around.

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Tips On How To Make Godly Friends That Will Lead To Marriage

By Benson Chidiebere → Thursday, 8 March 2018

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By Benson Chidiebere → Thursday, 22 February 2018

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By Benson Chidiebere → Wednesday, 21 February 2018

Benson and his wife don't sit next to each other during Church services.

Even when going to Church services, they go in different vehicles; and when they travel in the same car, it is usually a very quiet and uncomfortable ride.

Benson sat at his usual spot in the Church service; the fourth line on the far left row. His wife sat on the center row.

The Pastor took to the podium.

*"Husbands, stop wasting your time praying"* the Pastor began.

The congregants got alarmed. No one expects to hear a pastor saying prayer is a waste of time.

I am not here to discourage you to pray, but to encourage you to pray right.

Husbands, stop wasting your time praying if you are not treating your wives well.

You come to church driving your expensive cars, giving your offerings and tithes, active in Church, some of you are Church leaders; but how are you treating your wife?

You may look good to us Church members, but it is your wife and children that know who you truly are" said the Pastor.

Benson turned to face his wife. She looked at him. Benson could see her eyes.

Her left eye swollen from the blow he gave her last week when she confronted him about his alcoholism, pornography use and mischievous behavior.

People couldn't tell she had a black eye because of the make up she had on, so well done.

The Pastor continued, "People have perfected the art of cover up. Here in Church, so many are hurting but you wouldn't know.

People come here wearing their nice clothes, shiny smiles, they are active in ministry but hurting a lot in their marriage.

"We have become numb and plastic, brushing things under the carpet. But today we shall heal; and shall address those wounds we hide."

The Pastor cleared his throat and continued, "Many of those who are hurting their spouses are using the church to hide.

They think that because they give offering s and tithes, because they make public prayers, because they read the Word or because they hold a Church leadership position that they are right with God. God is also interested in what you do in your marriage and in your family.

The Word says that when you treat your wife badly, it hinders your prayers. Men, you claim to be prayerful?

Hear this, "Your first ministry is your home. Stop trying to blackmail God with your service in Church yet you are mean and hurtful towards your spouse."

Many of the members of the congregation got restless and unsettled.

The Pastor continued, "Many of those who are being hurt by their spouse hide their pain and want to project an image that all is well to validate that they are blessed and in control.

Some of you are active in Church to run away from the pain in your marriages".

The congregation was silent. Some straightening their ties, others fidgeting with their Bibles, adjusting their sitting position.

This pastor was preaching truth and it was uncomfortable.

The Pastor continued, "The husbands are not the only ones guilty here... Wives, don't you know the Word says when your husband found you he found good virtuous woman and you brought favour?

Then why are you the source of your husband's headache and stress? Have you been so toxic that you have turned your prayerful husband into a prayer-less one?

Do you make him regret marrying you because you bring more complications than he had before marrying you?

How you treat your husband can be a stumbling block in his walk with God or an environment that encourages growth.

Many of you wives married your individual husbands primarily because of their relationship with God, so why are you now destroying their relationship with God instead of celebrating and nurturing it?

Why are you being a burden to your husband emotionally, spiritually, socially, sexually and financially instead of being one who brings favour?"

Benson's wife looked at her husband. Benson looked at her, and she looked away.

The Pastor paused to drink his glass of water.

And he continued, "When I am thirsty, I drink a glass of water.

When your spouse gets thirsty, will you allow God to use you to bless your spouse?

You've been told many sermons that focus on you as an individual, that God will make you prosper as an individual.

I am here to tell you your blessings are tied to people, you are blessed to be a blessing to others. Our God is not an individualistic God.

Your blessing is tied to your marriage, your family. It's not about you; it is about Jesus and Jesus is about love.

What good is it to prosper and be successful when you have no love? It is all vanity.

God cares about your family, how you treat your spouse and children"

Silence. Silence. Silence...

"Yes, we pray. But what kind of prayers does your spouse pray because of you?

When your spouse prays, is it largely to cry to God because of the hurt you bring?

Is it to plead with God to change you from the monster you've become?

Is it to plead for grace to deal with how difficult you are? Or is to give thanks for you?"

Silence. Silence as grave yard

"Are you really prayerful? Do you really value prayer? What is prayer?

Then why is it that many of you find it easy to come to us pastors for us to pray with you as an individual, you find it is easy to pray in public, in a Church service or Bible study, but find it so hard to pray with your spouse?

Isn't that telling of what is going on in your marriage? Don't you know that the more you pray with your spouse the stronger your marriage will be?

But how can you find it easy to pray with a spouse you hurt or who hurts you?"

The Pastor paused and looked at the congregation. Eyes staring at him.

"I challenge you. I challenge you to pray with your spouse and to treat your spouse well. You must save your home, your marriage, your love!

Husbands, you are the head of the home. I challenge you to stand up and go to where your wife is and pray with her as a start of a more prayerful chapter in your marriage.

Don't do it because I asked you to but because you want to. Your choice"

One by one, the husbands present stood up.

Benson stood up too.

Benson walked to where his wife was.

The face of Benson's wife overwhelmed with love, she looked on as her husband walked to her.

She almost stood up but he gave hand gestures at her to stay seated.

Benson reached where she sat. Their eyes met.

Benson knelt down. He stared at her then kissed her swollen left eye.

"I am sorry" he said.

"Can I pray with you?" He asked.

She got up from her seat and knelt down too.

There, on the floor as the Church service was still ongoing, husbands prayed with their wives.

Benson prayed kneeling with his wife.

They prayed for forgiveness, for thanksgiving, for love, for renewal, for peace, for direction; for their marriage.

Marriages were healed.

If You have been blessed by this message please share. You might just be saving a marriage at the verge of being broken.


This post was made by Nwakanma Izuchukwu. Izuchukwu is the Founder and CEO iExcell Foundation. You can reach him by clicking here or by visiting is direct page by clicking here.

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By Benson Chidiebere → Monday, 29 January 2018

If you are capable to spot the changes that is happening to your spouse then there are pretty good chances to repair the damages caused. Women are great at being patient even when they take a hit on hot spots. Sometimes you do a few things out of unconsciousness but it might hurt her even if it was never your intentions. 

If you think that your wife is being calm more then she is ever then it is time for you to revisit your past memories and find out what went wrong at first place. Here are some signs that, if you notice, then you can say your wife hates you.

Reduced Communication

It is one of the most brutal form of consequence formed due to reduced interest to share. This is the first sign that you will notice. It doesn’t matter if you both are into jobs or not, but a women goes through many thoughts in a single moment and some of them will be about you too. 

The most strongest part of marriage is when you share things that you have been though when you were not together, sometimes all we need is someone to listen and understand everything that cross your mind. This gives you a feeling of being connected, understanding and it really reflects you presence in a relationship. 

She acts Grumpy

One of the easiest way to find out that she is being grumpy or not is that you look at her. If you notice that her face looks irked then yes, there is your sign she is grumpy. Often women can act grumpy when they really want to speak their hearts out but they have lost all expectations over you of understanding them. They start getting over little things like your unorganized clothes or shoes. She stops making things you like and the taste of food changes. If forget doing house chore that she asked you and she does it herself. She will often start using phrase like “doesn’t matter” a lot.

Less eye contact

It is said that your eyes speak truth when your face is not. When you make an eye contact while you speak you give a piece of your focus and a sense of being interested in knowing what your wife has to speak about. If she has stopped making an eye contact with you while speaking and instead she keeps on looking to other things then I would say you have to consider your thoughts on relationship and where it is leading. It is now time to put things on track before any more damages happen and you become helpless in this relationship.

Knowing these sings are really important because they light up your way to settling this relationship in place again. If you encounter these behavioral changes at an early stage then you can bond up again easily because you know exactly what is going wrong and how you can fix it. If Your are in trouble just take: online marriage counseling

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3 Signs That Your Wife Hates You

By Benson Chidiebere → Tuesday, 23 January 2018

Love is the most overused word in the English language. It's what we say when we want or need something, and many has fallen victim of this vocabulary.

Love is God and it's symbolic figure is Death and such is an evidence of Love. Christ is the fruit and gift of love and the result thereof is what made us a Christian.

So, next time someone profess and uttered "Hello, you know i always love you" Please kindly inquire from him/her; "Yes i knew you love me but please can you die for me? Can you bear my pains and suffer with me?

Though he/she might concur but you must not be taken for a fool because human being are deceptive. There is need for a test or prove.

Likewise also; please you must not forget the password of a true love. The secure password of every true love with genuine motives is "LOVE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX"

You need to guide this password jealously in your heart, bind it around your waist, lapse, hands, eyes, neck, trousers and skirt.

If you forget this password you will definitely blame yourself because love simply means...

L: Long-suffering.
O: Overlook.
V: Volunteer.
E: Encouragement

Long-suffering: Enduring intimidation, oppositions and perseverance while helping others.
Overlook: Disregarding offences and keying unto forgiveness and tolerance.
Volunteer: Offering selfless and upholding total commitment in order to bring-out the best in others.
Encouragement: Providing sources of hope and serving as inspirational tunes to others.

The Broken Heart and Encouragement

"I Love You" is a powerful expression or statement. It's very easy to say but very "Hard To Keep" because man can't love unconditionally.

However, due to this failure many hearts are left broken beyond repair. Many have already fallen victim and despair in spirit due to broken promises and deception. Please console and encourage yourself and move on.

Don't be mad and angry due to heart broken. Don't feel sad with life when someone break your heart but always thank God for sustaining your life. And for giving you the grace to see another day like today.

Though, your heart is broken but Christ the origin of LOVE is always around to make that heart wholly again. Perhaps your heart is pierced with many leakage holes of marital failure,
 promises and disappointment.

Please don't look bad, rather stand and claim your position as man of honor or woman of favor. You father is LOVE and has promised to fill your broken heart with peace and love. He is still beckoning; Matthew 11:28 "Come unto me all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest"

He has already commission another person who will love and care for you but you need to wait patiently for it. In every circumstance of your life; God is always aware and sometimes, you don't actually understand his plan until it manifest.

Sometimes; his best and perfect will are not always our desire but will eventually turn out to be our most desirable needy. Do You Know Why?

A True Life Testimony Of God's Love

Let me share an unbelievable testimony of a sister who saw unending love of God. She was the only Born Again in her entire family. Unfortunately, her family dispersed her sudden new faith in Christ.

One certain day, on her way back from church service she saw the ugly side of her life. As she was about to enter the compound, her father sighted her from afar and asked her to make great decision of her life.

While standing outside the compound, her father asked her to choose either Christ or her family. Though she refused to deny her faith but she paid the price. Instantly, her father commanded, her to pull-off her entire dress and strip herself naked.

She reluctantly obliges and pull-off her dress, but remains only her bra and pant. As she turns back to walk out, her father ask her to pull-off both her bra and pant because he is the owner and should go and ask Jesus for replacement.

Howbeit, she obeyed and was told to go back with only her bible to where ever she was coming from and should never return back. She walked out in shame and decided to visit one of the sister who fellowship in same church. Her friend provided both her clothing and shelter while she scales through High Institution.

Meanwhile, after clothing the naked sister, her friend came out to see the expression of her neighbors and passer-by who might felt worry over her friend who walked-in naked into her apartment.

She was totally surprised when group of men at (bear parlor) near-by along the street asked, if she was a sister to the lady that just walked into her apartment a minutes ago?

The young men affirmed that the immaculate gown (dress) which her friend wore was beaming gloriously and they needed to see her. Though she saw herself walking naked but was not aware that God had already made a provision to cover her nakedness which was only seen by her friend.

That is whom i called JEHOVAH JIREH (He that always made provision before the needy).

Moreover, few years later, God favors and promoted her academically and she later got a job in banking industry. The bank manager had almost slept with entire female staff in the bank and decided to extend his fornicating enterprise on the sister but she resisted and she was fired.

Months later, the managing board held a conference meeting and the bank manager vouch for her as the most trusted staff to be assigned as Bank Manager to the newly establish branch. It was a moment of ecstasy when she drove in to her father's compound for her traditional wedding.

Yes, she forgives her father because if life doesn't give you what you want and you become filled with heart broken, you simply have to be hopeful and keep on trusting God because he always cares.

I believe someone has grab one or two points from this article; and I pray you will always recalled them to memories while dealing with life issues and love.

What You Must Know About The Word "Love"

By Benson Chidiebere → Tuesday, 9 January 2018

Stomach Ulcer has killed several individuals, and so many are still lying critically helpless on hospital beds for this same Stomach ulcer. You can agree with me that approximately 20% of individuals with different circumstances are suffering from the very same ulcer. The moment we’d realise this, the better for the safety of people dwelling in the world today.

On this very short and vivid note, I am seriously going to teach you the reasons why this is so (causes). The scholastic causes of ulcer are what we are going to discuss today on this very article. I tag it, scholastic because, these very reasons and causes are what we default everyday without knowing them.

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Maybe we haven’t seen the symptoms of the so called ulcer, or we aren’t convinced yet. But before talking about these causes, I’ll like to clarify you on what I mean by Stomach Ulcer.

What Is Stomach Ulcer ?

Stomach Ulcers are painful sores that can be found in the stomach lining or small intestine. Stomach ulcers are the most visible sign of Peptic Ulcer Disease. They occur when the thick layer of mucus that protects your stomach from digestive juices is reduced, thus enabling the digestive acids to eat away at the lining tissues of the stomach.

Stomach Ulcers are easily cured but they can become very severe if no proper treatment is administered. Now having known the meaning of Stomach Ulcer, I am candidly going to highlight its scholastic causes.

There are so many things that causes ulcer which we might joke over. In-fact, a good number of us play over it and many are still doing it. But I believe; after reading this very note of mine, you’ll finally realise them and begin to deal with them.

Causes Of Stomach Ulcer
Before getting started, I will highlight the causes in the sense that all will be very comprehendible. Like I’d always say’ a scholastic cause means elementary causes.

That is to say that there are several primary causes of stomach ulcer which have been or perhaps have overlooked it and they have gradually damaged the Intestines of its victims.

Stomach Ulcers as record bears it, is not caused by one a single factor but rather the vice is the case. The reduction in the stomach mucus lining (which leads to ulcer) is caused by the following factors;

1. Smoking
2. Over-Stressing of the body
3. Excessive consumption of Alcohol
4. Regular Use Of Steroids
5. Excessive consumption of Peppery food
6. Excessive consumption of Salty food
7. Long-term use of Nonsteroidal Anti-Inflammatory Drugs (NSAIDs) such as ibuprofen and aspirin.
8. Hyperacidity
9. By Nature (when you get to 50 years, you are prone to it)
10. Over production of Calcium
11. Heredity

Having realised this, I hope you’d take preventive measures towards this. Many lives are gone because of untreated Stomach Ulcers which could practically lead to Peptic and Duodenal Ulcer and with such, it’s remedies becomes a scarce commodity.

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11 Causes Of Stomach Ulcer

By Benson Chidiebere → Tuesday, 19 December 2017

Having seen or perhaps read this headline, the first thing that should come to your mind is what is Masturbation? Because this article will be a total mess if you didn’t understand what masturbation really means.

Now What Is Masturbation?

Masturbation here in our general understanding and knowledge simply means sexing self. Yes! This actually went straight to the point. Let’s take for instance; we all know that sex is meant for married couples which mean sex is between opposite sexes. But masturbation means you won’t have to do it with your opposite sex or even same sex but you are doing it all by yourself and to yourself which is probably the wrong approach to sex.

I will call sex abuse. So take note of this, whenever you masturbate, you are directly abusing sex. In conclusion of the whole matter, it simply means doing sex the wrong way.
Major Difference Between Sex, Masturbation, Lesbianism and 

Yes! All these listed above are quite different from each other, so do not misunderstand each of them. They have different meaning from each other. For the fact that they could possibly have little or major similarity does not mean that they are same or have the same meaning. Now, I will give you a candid differentiation between Sex, Masturbation, Lesbianism and Homosexuality.
Sex: This means an intercourse between opposite sex (Man and Woman). This is strictly for married couples, so if you are not married, you are not permitted to have sex.

Masturbation: This means an intercourse of just one person. Here do not need anybody to do it, you can do it by yourself. (You by yourself). This is very wrong. It is an abomination.

Lesbianism: This is an intercourse between a female and her fellow female (Woman To Woman). This is tagged to be the wrong way of intercourse. This is also prohibited by God and by man’s law and constitution.

This is an intercourse between a male and his fellow male (Man to Man Intercourse). Here men do not need ladies for intercourse but rather they do it with their fellow men and this is also prohibited by God and by man’s mere constitution.

Now having known the difference/s between Sex, Masturbation, Homosexual and Lesbianism, you are advised never to practice any one of them listed above until you allegedly married then you can do the one called Sex which was made for married couples.

Note: Any intercourse outside married couples (Sex) is practically wrong.

Reasons Why Young People Masturbate;

A good number of the young people in our society today are all victims of this circumstance. In a society where the number of youths is 100, I will confidently say that, 80 out of the 100 all masturbates.
With my understanding of young people and their attributes, I have got to understand that they are majorly indulging in masturbation.

Yes! They masturbate but we are yet to understand the reason why they had to do so. Each day you see people complaining or perhaps confession of how they were masturbating. Now let’s see the reasons for such; of course there are many more reasons why young people masturbate and we are keenly gonna look into each and every one of them one by one.


Mr lust is the key reason why a good many of our young people masturbate. When a young individual is lusting after his or her opposite sex, the next thing that will hit his or her mind is sex, of course it is impossible to have sex with someone you are lusting for, and so the only remedy they could be able to think of was to masturbate since they couldn’t have sex with their crush.
Lust can make young youths do an undo-able.

No Strong Intimacy with God

You can easily be tossed around by the devil if you have no intimacy or a loosed intimacy with God. I know a good many of you might be thinking if this is really necessary or perhaps needed on this thread.

The devil will make you a regular customer to masturbation if you cannot stand to resist the temptation and you cannot possibly resist the temptation if you have a loosed intimacy or relationship with God.

Try building your intimacy with God and see how you’ll begin to stand and resist the devil at the peak of you being tempted.

Addicted To Pornographies

You must have the urge to masturbate if you are an addict to pornographically materials. If you are such a type that loves such, there is every tendency that you must be masturbating.

Probably, when you are all alone, the picture of what you watch will display visually in your mind which will leave you with the thoughts of thinking about intercourse. This is a very serious matter, learn to get rid of this, and see how you will become elevated from such mess.

It is only in our time you’ll get to see young people doing what you never expected them to do. Don’ be involved in such mess, take note of these listed above and correct your licking holes.

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Reasons Why Young People Masturbate

By Benson Chidiebere → Wednesday, 13 December 2017